Getting ready for a boudoir photography session can feel a little overwhelming, especially if it’s your first time. But with the right preparation, you can walk into your session feeling confident, empowered, and excited! Whether you're doing it for yourself or as a gift for someone special, this checklist will help you prepare every step of the way to make sure your boudoir shoot is an unforgettable experience.

Black and white boudoir photograph showing silhouette posed on tufted leather couch in moody lighting.
Artistic black and white boudoir photo of figure in lingerie posed against exposed brick wall in dramatic lighting.
Artistic boudoir photo in moody lighting with exposed brick wall and vintage persian rug on concrete floor.



1. Get Your Mindset Right

  • Embrace Self-Love: A boudoir session is all about celebrating you! Take some time before the shoot to remind yourself how amazing, beautiful, and strong you are. This will help you feel more at ease during your session.
  • Visualize the Outcome: Think about how you’ll feel when you see your stunning photos. Imagine the empowerment, the confidence, and the joy you’ll experience looking at them. This mindset will help you during the shoot.
  • Talk to Your Photographer: If you have any worries or anxieties, don’t hesitate to talk to your photographer. Open communication helps set expectations and creates a comfortable environment.



2. Skin & Body Care

  • Exfoliate Your Skin: Smooth, glowing skin will make a huge difference in your boudoir photos. Exfoliate your face and body a couple of days before your session to remove dead skin cells and give your skin a healthy glow.
  • Moisturize: Hydrated skin looks soft and radiant, so make sure to moisturize your body and face. Avoid any lotions with heavy fragrances or chemicals, as they may cause irritation.
  • Wax/Shave/Groom: If you prefer a certain grooming style, make sure to take care of it the day before your shoot. For instance, waxing or shaving your legs, underarms, or bikini area the night before will give your skin time to calm down.
  • Get a Mani/Pedi (Optional): You might be showing off your hands or feet in some of your shots, so having neat nails adds an extra touch of polish. Choose a color that complements your overall look—neutral shades or something bold, depending on your style!


3. Outfit Selection

  • Choose Outfits That Make You Feel Amazing: Your boudoir session is all about you feeling confident and beautiful. Select outfits that make you feel your best. This could be lingerie, a silky robe, a bralette and shorts, or even something more casual or thematic like a button-up shirt or oversized sweater.
  • Consider Different Looks: Bring at least three to five outfit options for variety. Choose a mix of styles—sexy, elegant, playful, or even vintage. Think about adding accessories like jewelry, stockings, or heels to complete each look.
  • Stick to Flattering Fits: Make sure your clothes fit properly and comfortably. You don’t want to be tugging or adjusting them throughout your shoot. If you’re unsure, opt for lingerie that supports and flatters your body type.
  • Don’t Forget the Details: Bring any props, special items, or accessories you might want to incorporate into your photos, like a veil for a bridal shoot or a leather jacket for an edgy vibe.


Artistic boudoir photoshoot featuring black lingerie against exposed brick wall with potted plant and white curtain.
A silhouetted figure reclines on a bed in black and white, with soft window light filtering through sheer curtains.
A woman wearing dark lingerie poses on a leather couch in a dimly lit room with exposed brick walls and a mirror.
A person reclines on a dark leather couch in a moody room with ornate rugs and soft window light filtering through.


4. Hair & Makeup

  • Face Prep: Show up with a clean moisturized face so we can get right to work!
  • Hair Prep: Our in house stylist will make you feel your best no matter what. We prefer you arrive with clean dry hair. That way your hair will hold a curl best.


5. Mental & Emotional Preparation

  • Relax and Unwind: The days leading up to your boudoir session, focus on self-care. Take time to relax, meditate, or do something that calms your nerves and helps you feel centered.
  • Trust Your Photographer: Let go of any worries or insecurities—your photographer is there to guide you through the process. Trust their direction on posing and positioning; they’ll know how to capture the best angles and make you look amazing.
  • Embrace the Experience: Remember, boudoir photography is meant to be fun and liberating! Try to let go of self-judgment and embrace the experience with a sense of adventure.


6. Practical Details

  • Arrive On Time: Arriving a little early will help you settle in and give you time to talk with your photographer about your vision for the shoot.
  • Stay Hydrated and Eat Lightly: Eat a light, healthy meal before the session, and drink plenty of water to stay energized and hydrated. Avoid heavy meals that might leave you feeling bloated.
  • Bring Comfortable Clothing: After the shoot, you’ll likely want to change into something comfortable. Bring a cozy robe or some comfy clothes to slip into.
  • Bring Backup Options: Accidents happen! Pack a few extra items in case something doesn’t fit or gets damaged. A backup outfit or extra accessories can help avoid stress during the shoot.


7. Post-Shoot Tips

  • Enjoy the Moment: After your session, take time to reflect on how awesome you feel. Whether you look at a few behind-the-scenes photos or take a moment to relax, enjoy the glow of confidence you’re radiating.
  • Plan for Your Reveal: Whether you're planning to get albums, prints, or digital files, talk to your photographer about how you want to view your final images. The reveal can be just as exciting as the shoot itself!


A moody boudoir photograph with strappy black lingerie on leather furniture in warm, dramatic lighting.
A black and white artistic boudoir photograph showing legs resting on a bed with soft window light.

Final Thoughts


Your boudoir photography session is an opportunity to celebrate you. By following this checklist, you’ll feel confident, prepared, and ready to embrace the experience from start to finish. Remember, this is your time to shine and show off your unique beauty. Have fun with it, and trust that your photographer will capture the magic!


Are you ready for your boudoir session? Let’s make it a day to remember!


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